Sex-Positive Sex Therapy Online in AR, TX, & SC
Rediscover Pleasure, Conquer Sexual Challenges, Build a Fulfilling Sex Life
Ready for a fulfilling sex life? Personalized sex therapy can help. Schedule your free consultation.
Are You Longing for Deeper Sexual Connection &Fulfillment?
Sex Therapy May Be for Your If:
You crave deeper intimacy and connection with yourself and/or your partner.
You struggle to communicate your sexual needs, desires, or boundaries.
You're ready to heal from past experiences that affect your sex life.
You crave open, honest communication about sex but feel unsure how to start.
You want to overcome shame about your sexual desires or past experiences.
You want to overcome sexual challenges and rediscover pleasure.
You want to explore your sexual identity, orientation, or non-traditional relationship in a safe, non-judgmental space.
Sex Therapy – A Path to Intimacy & Sexual Wellness
Understanding Sex Therapy
Sex therapy is a specialized type of talk therapy focused on your sexual concerns, experiences, and goals. We'll discuss your history and explore challenges like anxiety, body image issues, or the impact of past hurts while unpacking societal and religious messages, exploring your desires, sexuality, and relationship preferences (including those around kink, fantasies, and ethical non-monogamy), and helping you reconcile it all with your values. No physical touch is involved; it's about open communication, skill-building, and self-understanding with personalized solutions.
How Sex Therapy Helps:
Explore Sexual Identity & Preferences: Explore sexual orientation, kink interests, ethical non-monogamy, and build a sex life aligned with your authentic self.
Enhance Intimacy & Communication: Learn how to express your desires openly, navigate sexual differences, and build trust within relationships.
Heal from Past Hurts: Safely process difficult experiences such as sexual trauma and relationship betrayals (i.e., infidelity or unexpected breakups) that affect your enjoyment of sex and relationships.
Build Sexual Confidence & Navigate Shame: Overcome performance anxiety, body image issues, shame, and internalized societal and religious expectations limiting your sexual expression and build a positive relationship with your sexuality.
What to Expect with Sex Therapy
Safe and Supportive Space: I create a non-judgmental environment where you feel comfortable discussing sensitive topics.
Personalized Approach: We tailor the focus and strategies to your unique needs, goals, and comfort level. This might include:
Exercises like Sensate Focus to reconnect with your body and enhance pleasure.
Techniques to manage negative thoughts and anxiety and build sexual confidence.
Strategies to communicate your sexual needs, desires, and boundaries more clearly.
Exploration of shame, societal messages, or past experiences impacting your sexuality.
Body image exercises to enhance your connection and confidence.
Guidance for navigating STIs and their emotional impact.
Processing the impact of past trauma on your sex life.
Ready to reclaim a fulfilling and enjoyable sex life?
Sex Therapy Can Help You:
Identify the beliefs, fears, or societal messages holding you back from sexual fulfillment.
Develop the confidence to express your sexual needs and desires authentically.
Reclaim sexual pleasure and explore your desires without shame or judgment.
Build stronger sexual communication skills with your partner(s).
Heal from the emotional impact of sexual trauma or past betrayal.
Navigate sexual challenges with practical strategies and techniques.
Embrace your sexual identity and preferences, including those around kink or ethical non-monogamy.
Create a sex life aligned with your values and authentic self.
Sex therapy can help you (re)discover a healthy, fulfilling sexual life centered on your own needs and desires.
FAQs
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Can sex therapy help with the impact of past trauma on my sex life?
Yes, sex therapy can be very effective in processing the emotional impact of sexual trauma or other difficult experiences that affect intimacy and sexuality. We'll work at your pace using trauma-informed approaches to help you heal and reclaim a fulfilling sex life.
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I'm worried sex therapy will feel awkward or embarrassing. Is that normal?
It's understandable to feel apprehensive! Sex can be a sensitive topic. My role is to create a safe, non-judgmental space where you can gradually build comfort discussing these aspects of your life. We'll move at your pace and focus on what feels right for you.
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I'm interested in exploring kink/BDSM or ethical non-monogamy, but I'm afraid of being judged. Can sex therapy help?
Yes! Sex therapy offers a safe space to explore your desires and preferences, including kink or alternative relationship styles. We'll focus on ensuring your explorations are safe, consensual, and align with your values with support and guidance.
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I'm not sure if I have a "problem," but I'd like to feel more confident and empowered in my sexuality. Is sex therapy right for me?
Absolutely! Sex therapy isn't just about fixing problems. It's also about enhancing sexual knowledge, communication, and self-understanding. We can work together to build your sexual confidence and create a sex life aligned with your values and desires.
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What can I expect during the first session of sex therapy?
The first session is all about getting to know you and your needs. We'll discuss what brings you to therapy, your sexual history (but only to the extent you're comfortable with), and your goals for sex therapy. I may also ask questions about your mental health, relationship history, sexual health (including STIs), and physical health as these can all play a role in sexual well-being.
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Will I be required to discuss uncomfortable details about my sex life?
Sex therapy does involve discussing your sexual experiences and concerns, but it’s conducted in a safe, professional, and non-judgmental environment. We’ll work at a pace you’re comfortable with.
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What topics are typically covered in the first session?
Here are some common topics we might discuss: Your sexual history and experiences (comfort level permitting), your current sexual concerns and challenges, your relationship history and dynamics (if applicable), your overall physical and mental health, your goals for sex therapy, and any previous experiences with sex therapy (if applicable).
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How does sex therapy differ from regular therapy?
While traditional therapy often addresses psychological and emotional issues broadly, sex therapy specifically targets issues related to sexual health and intimacy. It involves open and honest discussions about sexual behaviors, feelings, and intimacy, providing strategies and solutions tailored to these areas.
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Is sex therapy just for couples, or can individuals benefit from it too?
Sex therapy is beneficial for both individuals and couples. Individuals may seek sex therapy for personal sexual issues or exploring their needs for future relationships, while couples can address issues surrounding sex and intimacy within their relationship.
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How long does sex therapy typically last?
The duration of sex therapy depends on your needs and goals. Some people see improvement in a few sessions, while others benefit from long-term support. We'll discuss the timeline together.
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Will I be asked to engage in sexual activities during therapy sessions?
Absolutely not. Sex therapy is talk-based therapy and there’s no physical contact involved.
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Will I be given "homework" or exercises to do between sessions?
Sometimes, I may suggest exercises or activities to do outside of sessions. These might help you connect with your body, explore your desires, or practice communication techniques with your partner(s). Some may be sexually explicit (e.g., exploring your own body through touch). However, they are always optional, and we'll discuss them thoroughly before you decide to try them.
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Is sex therapy confidential?
Yes! Like all forms of therapy, sex therapy is bound by strict confidentiality. Your information remains private and secure.
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How do I get started with sex therapy? What's the first step?
If you're ready to begin, the easiest way to start is to call the awesome front office staff of my employer to discuss insurance coverage and schedule your initial intake session.
Sex Therapy for Individuals: My Areas of Expertise
Navigating Sexual Desire & Intimacy
Addressing mismatched libidos, exploring desires, enhancing sexual communication, building emotional intimacy
Exploring Sexuality & Identity
Safely examining your sexual orientation, gender identity, kink interests, and relationship preferences (including ethical non-monogamy).
Sexual Communication
Learning to express sexual needs, desires, and boundaries with confidence and clarity, both to yourself and potential or existing partners.
Healing from Trauma & Betrayal
Processing the impact of sexual trauma, infidelity, or difficult breakups that affect your enjoyment of sex and relationships
Overcoming Sexual Shame & Internalized Stigma
Challenging negative beliefs about sex, sexuality, and your body, often rooted in societal or religious messages
Enhancing Sexual Confidence
Building body acceptance, exploring desires without judgment, and finding pleasure after periods of sexual difficulty